Cold, rain, running and AIDS Education

So I seem to have forgotten the best part about running the marathon, an excuse to travel! I get to go to on vacation in Buenos Aires for about a week and we might even hit up the beach in Uruguay. There are about 7 volunteers that I know of who are running and we are all takng the bus down, about a 16-hour drive, but cheaper than a flight. It should prove to be an interesting trip seeing as I hardly know anyone who is going. I am very excited; it will be a well-deserved break almost 6 months into my service.

It’s September and while that means the changing of leaves and end of summer for those of you up north, here in the Southern Hemisphere it means the end of winter and hopefully a steady stream of warm days. The winter here is much lie the many winters I have spent in New Orleans and Tampa. It never gets cold enough to snow, but there is the occasional freeze. There are some weeks where the weather is sunny and in the 70s and 0s and others when it is rainy and cold. The difference here is that with a lack of air conditioning and heat, as well as proper nutrition, the constant change in weather causes a lot of ongoing sickness. This past week has been rainy and freezing… The rain brings with it a steady slew of canceled classes and activities, which sometimes s a relief and other times leaves me stir crazy. When you rely on a bicycle as your main means of transportation, the other option being your feet, the rain and cold make leaving the house something to do only when it is absolutely necessary. So far this week I have read three books and am working on my fourth!

But I will be up and working hard again soon, kinda. Starting tomorrow I will be in Asuncion attending a 3-day workshop with a community contact to learn about AiDS education. This is a secondary project for many volunteers and something I haven’t really gotten into yet, but when I mentioned the workshop to one of my contacts he was elated. The funny thing is he is a staunch Christian and he handed me a magazine on the topic of sex designed by a Christian group with whom he works. The magazine describes in detail the “proper” manner of conduct relating to all things sexual. This includes only having sex if you are prepared to have a baby… ok I can handle that line of thinking, but lets get real teenagers and young adults are going to have sex so lets instead talk about birth control and condoms, which are free in the health clinics and hospitals, but even the married people around here seem to be embarrassed to ask about. The magazine also goes on to castigate pornography, masturbation, abortion and homosexuality. While I may not be a big fan of porn, I don’t think it should be condemned as something that will ruin the life of any person who watches it. If this is the way that my contact thinks we will definitely have a very interesting week! In a country where Catholicism is the norm safe sex is a touchy topic, but one that I guess I will be touching on very soon!

The Top 10 Obstacles to Training for a Marathon in Paraguay and Why I am Doing it Anyway

After months of debating with myself I have decided to train for the Buenos Aires Marathon to be held October 12^th. I had actually begun to train without actually committing myself to the race and at this point I am in week 11 of 18. This morning as I ran my 8 miler in the rain I thought to myself, why am I doing this? Most people wouldn’t attempt to train for a marathon in the states let alone a third world country. While running I came up with a list of the things that make it difficult to run in Paraguay.

10. Lack of any real area for running. There are dirt roads with huge potholes, cobblestone roads, which are hard to run on, or the asphalt ruta which has too much traffic.

9. Rain… it turns the best option, dirt roads and paths, into mud rivers.

8. Paraguayan attitude. They think that I am super strange because I go out of my way to exercise. I am constantly getting strange looks and stares.

7. Herds of Cows

6. The presents the herds of cows left behind.

5. The fact that its “dangerous” to go down this street or that and to be out when its dark or getting dark.

4. More laundry.

3. Dogs barking and nipping at my feet.

2. Dirty Air, burning garbage is a health hazard on its own, try inhaling the stuff when you are already short of breath!

1. Piropos, otherwise known as cat calls. The men here are so macho that they think every time a girl passes they have to hoot and holler at her. It is multiplied exponentially because I am doing such a strange thing as exercising. Especially if I wear shorts.

Why am I doing it anyway?
I enjoy the challenge, it forces me to exercise and stay in shape, I like having a goal to work towards, this way I have something planned for at least four days out of every week, and I hope that one day at least one of the Paraguayans will stop thinking of me as that weird American out running again and be inspired to do it too!

I have become increasing thankful for my I-pod. My personal soundtrack to the weird world around me! It definitely gets me through my runs.

Yet Another Holiday or Three

Paraguayans definitely like their holidays. This week we are celebrating three. On August 14th is Flag Day, August 15th the Founding of Asuncion and August 16th is Dia del Niño (Kid´s Day). For Dia del Niño all the schools and the community centers had cake, hot chocolate and music for the kids. For Flag Day there doesn´t seem to be much celebrating. They have been talking a little bit about the origin of the Paraguayan Flag, but it seems to have been kind of forgotten about. For the Foundation of Asuncion all the businesses are closed and everyone has the day off. In addition to being a major holiday the government will also change tomorrow. For the first time in 60 years the Liberal Party will take charge. The new president will be sworn in. In my Department we will also have a new governor. We hope to see positive change.

Dia de Amistad

Last Wednesday here in Paraguay we celebrated Friendship Day. Paraguayans take this holiday very seriously. They arrange parties and exchange gifts, it kinda felt like Christmas, only the gifts are super cheezy. At the Church my host family attends there was a white elephant party the weekend before Dia de Amistad. The weekend after my host family had their own gift exchange. I received a small diary that says ¨Wishing you Best Wishes¨in English on the front... kinda funny. I also received lots of little key chains and little card sized pieces of wood that describe me as a great friend. Everyone asked how we celebrate the day in the States... the unfortunate truth is that I don´t think I´d ever even heard of Friendship Day in the States. Does that make us unfriendly? Maybe we should pick up on this trend. At least make us look more friendly!

Last week also marked 3 months in site. I attended a three day training on language called the 3 month reconnect. All of the volunteers from my training group returned to our training community to learn a little bit more Guarani and Spanish and to hang out and compare experiences. Our sites are so different so it was good to hear about what everyone else is doing. I think it´s actually the last training that we´ll have all together as a training group.

In site I am continuously trying to become more involved. One of my friends is starting a theater group at one of the high schools so I plan on helping out with that. Our garden is starting to grow and this weekend my youth group is having a soccer tournament.

My First Paraguayan Wedding

Saturday nights I am usually at home watching a movie on my computer or trying to reading yet another book, but this past weekend I had the opportunity to attend my first Paraguayan wedding. My contact Julio got married on Saturday night. The wedding was probably not the ¨traditional¨ Paraguayan wedding due to the fact that it was held at a Baptist Church, but it gave me an idea of what they are like. First off the wedding was supposed to start at 7. I, being the typical American, arrived about 10 minutes early only to find that the Church doors where still closed and they were not quite done preparing everything inside. The wedding actually got underway at about 8 pm. It started with the civil proceedings and then the religious ceremony. For the civil ceremony both the bride and groom must have two witnesses each that can testify that they are single and can therefore marry. The religious ceremony seemed much like any non-Catholic ceremony in the States. After the wedding we proceeded to an outdoor reception hall which was like a really nice big pavillion. There the couple took pictures and there was a buffet dinner. The bride tossed her bouquet and there were cake pulls. After the cake was cut by the couple, they didn´t shove into each other´s faces, the party was over. It was kind of disappointing because I was looking forward to dancing. The wedding in its entirety lasted only about three hours. Can you imagine? That definitely wouldn´t fly with my family!

Geography Camp

So after one day of intensive planning and three days of chaos my geography camp has come to an end. I had about 70 kids come in all, 25-35 at a time. Even with the help of another volunteer it was rough. The kids were rowdy and didn´t really want to listen, but I am hoping that they got something out of it. We were unable to finish the World Map, but I am hoping to work on it over the next week and possibly finish it up. I am putting up pictures from the camp on the Flickr site. Next week I plan to take a break and relax a little bit. We´ll see if that actually happens!

Two Months In Site- What am I Doing?

So I have been in my site for two whole months now! Can you believe it? Only 22 months left... yes that means I am still counting. So what have I been up to? Tons of stuff! My main contact is the community center/after-before school program and I go there almost daily to do work. What type of work? Some days I am tutoring kids other days I am helping to serve snacks to the kids and others I am working on our new garden. Garden? With the youth group I formed at the community center we have cleaned an area and prepped it for a vegetable producing garden. Which we will hopefully be planting soon. We have youth group every Saturday morning at the community center and we have been doing some random fundraisers to start out with. I am also teaching computer classes at an elementary school two days a week. There are about twenty classes in all which is really overwhelming. We are on winter vacation for the next two weeks and I have planned, or am in the process of planning, a three-day day camp for the kids at the community center. They'll be learning about geography and some American culture. The theme came to me when one of the kids pointed to a map of Paraguay and asked me to show her where my county is located. I have another volunteer coming to help me with the camp and on the last day we will be painting a large World Map as a project. I can't wait! After winter break is over I will be teaching cooking classes to some of the mothers from the center. That should be interesting. We will be cooking without meat and Paraguayans are not exactly open to the idea. But it will help to reduce food costs and improve their health so I am going for it! So other than that I attend meetings for some other youth groups in the area and accompany my host mother on an hour walk nightly to sell sandwiches at a night school. I haven't been nearly as bored as I thought I might be. Living in a big city there's always something to do!